What's on my mind...

This may be too mushy gushy for some of you but bare with me... I love my husband, not the " I love you" before you hang up the phone "I love you" but the madly in-love, butterflies in the stomach kind of love. I am sharing this because I have been around more couples lately that either can't make it work, have been divorced then re-married, or are single and looking for love. I am realizing just how lucky I am. I absolutely adore my husband and he makes me feel like I'm the only woman in the world for him. So don't wait to tell your spouse how you feel, life is far to short to worry and fuss about the stuff and details of your life. Don't let your marriage get pushed to the back burner, because if that falls apart, the rest of your life starts to go with it. If that kind of love has been lost between you and your spouse I strongly encourage you to fight like hell to get it back. Find ways to surprise each other, date each other like you would if you had only met a few times, have fun and play for cryin' out loud! When did being married mean you have to be sedentary with your relationship? Being married is better than I ever dreamed it would be because we both make a strong effort to make each other feel special. And believe me, we fight! Fighting should and will happen if honesty ( and in our case stubbornness) is part of your marriage. Just be constructive in what is said and not hurtful, and always find a way to compromise. Matt is my best friend then husband. I think too many couples loose sight of why they fell in love in the first place. Love is the most important part of my life and there is no other feeling in the world like being in love and knowing that person loves you back in the same way. So...that's what's on my mind...Love!